Meena Kumari, a member of the Uttar Pradesh Women’s Commission passed shocking remarks which underlined the patriarchal and gender issues that continue to haunt Indian society.
In response to a question about increasing rape cases and the state’s plans to reduce crime against women, commission member Meena Kumari told reporters “girls should not be given mobile phones” because they “talk with boys and later run away with them”.
She also called for day and night checks on young women.
“I appeal to parents not to give mobile phones to daughters… if they do, phones should be checked regularly. All this (crime against women) is due to negligence by mothers,” she told reporters.
“We, as parents and society, have to put a check on our daughters… always see where they are going, and which boys they are sitting with. We have to check their mobile phones… girls will keep talking on their phone and then they elope,” she said.
After her comments sparked criticism, Ms Kumari issued a clarification.
“My statement has been misinterpreted. What I said was that parents should check whether their children are using mobile phones for studies or other purposes. I never said that if girls use phones they will run away with boys.”
Her video was widely shared online. Swati Maliwal, the Chairperson of the Delhi Commission for Women, among the most forceful critics.
“No ma’am, a phone in a girl’s hand is not a reason for rape. The reason for rape is a bad social system that affects the mindset of criminals. The Prime Minister is requested to sensitive all Women’s Commission members…” Ms Maliwal tweeted.
“Send them to the Delhi Commission for one day.. to see how we work. We will teach them,” she added.
Some months ago, National Commission for Women member Chandramukhi Devi said the gangrape and murder of a 50-year-old woman in Uttar Pradesh’s Budaun could have been avoided if she had not gone out in the evening.
Governments should think before appointing such person. Those who are responsible to fight patriarchy and stand for the rights for women are themselves affected by same patriarchal mentality.
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